Anal Beads

Playing with beads can be fun as long as you know your body. If you intend to play with a partner I recommend to play alone first before having a partner play with you.

Give yourself at least 15-20 minutes of alone play time. Gather some essential supplies to have everything at hand such as the Pleasure Anchor or your choice of beads, lubricant, clean wipes, and toy cleaner. Make sure you are relaxed and aroused. For women it helps to achieve an orgasm before hand. Use a very good lubricant, visit my site for the different types of lubricants I offer, try to stay away from silicon-based lubricants. Most people look for a water-based lubricant for anal play. Use the lubricant to massage the anus. Get into a comfortable position and use finger(s) to get comfortable to the pleasures of beads.

Once you feel you are ready to insert the beads begin with one bead. Think about how it feels, get comfortable and get pass the pain/discomfort/burning sensation. It also helps to breath through this process to continue the flow of relaxation. Continue to insert the beads to your comfort level. It is ok if you cannot insert all of the beads at once. Anal play is enjoyable over time and needs to be taken gently so that it will not discourage you from future play.

Where is the Pleasure?

The pleasure in beads is not from the beads inside the rectum or vigorously inserting and removing the beads, we are not checking our car oil, true pleasure comes from the actual act of the beads passing the two muscles that form the sphincter. When you are ready to remove the beads slowly remove them and think about the sensual pleasure you feel. You can repeat inserting and removing until play time is over.

Some Tips

• Orgasm. Climax will not occur anally. Continue stimulating your clitoris/penis/g-spot to reach an orgasm.
• Enhancing. Enhance your orgasm by removing one bead during climax. This will intensify your orgasm.
• Partners. During play with a partner try penetration once the beads are in. This will increase pleasure for you and your partner.
• Condoms. If you plan to share your toys please use a condom during every use. The bacteria in our rectum vary in everyone and you don’t want to spread infections.
• Vagina. If you desire to use anal beads vaginally please purchase an extra toy. You never want to use one toy for the same type of pleasure. That will increase your chances of infection whether or not you use a condom and have a toy cleaner.
• Cleaning your toy. Clean before and after every use. If you do not have a toy cleaner please clean your toy with hot water. Do not place toys in boiling hot water as this will damage your toy. If you use soap and water this can cause infection, especial for woman.